Physical contact is the best sibling gift
Mental care for siblings (baby's older siblings)
Babyish behavior and small disruptive behavior.
This is a sign from your older child that they want you to look at them or touch them.
In such cases, the key to solving the problem is "skinship."
Directly approach your older siblings' feelings,
We will introduce some skin-to-skin contact methods that are easy to incorporate into your daily life.
◾️Three physical contact methods
1. Give a hug
Set a time and timing and make hugging a daily routine.
Even a short hug, such as "before going out in the morning" or "before going to bed,"
It conveys the message, "You are important today too."
2. Holding hands
Whether you're walking outside or reading a picture book.
The warmth you feel from your palm is reassuring.
Try gently placing your hands together in your daily life.
3. Create a comforting pre-sleep routine
Before going to sleep, pat your baby, stroke their hair, or rub their back.
Even if it's just for a few seconds, just having a "good night ritual" can make a big difference.
The end of the day is enveloped in a sense of calm and peace.
◾️Three ways to have emotional contact
1: Make time to hang out alone
Even if it's just for a short while while your baby is sleeping, that's fine.
Create a little time for just the two of you by doing puzzles or drawing pictures.
"Time when you can just focus on yourself" will satisfy the older child's heart.
2: Make a date to go out together
It doesn't have to be a special event, just once a month.
A nearby cafe or park will suffice.
"The day I spent with my mom"
It will be a lasting memory for your child.
3: Spend time with your older child first
When a second child is born, there are times when you just don't have enough hands.
At the same time, there will surely be days when you cry.
In those times, it's okay to make time to prioritize your older siblings .
By satisfying the loneliness of older siblings, you will end up spending more peaceful time with your baby.
Eventually, the older brother and sisters began to feel more at ease,
"I feel like I'm being taken care of" "I want to share my love with my baby"
This feeling slowly begins to grow.
The most important thing is to make it a habit
It's already a tough time taking care of a baby.
It's okay if it's not perfect.
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Be conscious of "touching" it once a day .
Hugs, holding hands, stroking the head...
Even a small action will surely convey that you care.
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Make time once a month to fill your heart.
The two of us go out, play, and talk.
That moment will be the foundation of your child's peace of mind.
A soft bond develops from small physical contact.
Another "existence that connects warmth"
There are times when moms and dads just can't let go.
When you're sleeping or when you suddenly feel lonely.
Having someone to give you a gentle hug will help you feel safe.
Soft toys are an extension of the warmth of mommy and daddy.
It quietly conveys love without words.
It is also recommended as a sibling gift, as it evokes memories of physical contact.
The more time I spend with my older siblings,
Time with your baby will flow gently and peacefully.
